My little protégé

My mini fashionista Morgan! I am actually 💞taking style inspiration from my fabulous 6 year old! She's wearing Next, River Island and Custom Vintage Dublin. I just love shopping for girls!X

Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans

I always used to hear this phrase but didn't quite get what it meant, until now... In September 2016 I will wave goodbye to my twenties, the decade that brought me a Masters Degree, a beautiful daughter, some amazing jobs, friends for life, and more fashion disasters than I care to think about (especially the earlier 20s) and I am starting to realise that this might not be such a bad thing. Older? Definitely! Wiser? I think I'm getting there! The older we get the quicker time seems to fly by and before we know it another year has passed. I am definitely a regular culprit of being that person in work on a Wednesday saying, ‘Thank God it’s nearly the weekend.’ It's like you wish the days by every week just to get to the weekend, or wish the months by to get to your next holiday or trip away, when in fact by doing this, it’s actually your life that you are wishing away! 

'I need to go there', 'I have to do that', I constantly feel the need to have plans, my life is about filling my diary as much as humanly possible and not leaving enough time for myself to sit back and think about what I actually want to do. I am so torn between thinking ‘Life is short so do what you enjoy,’ and ‘You have to work to survive and live comfortably!' I think this is a regular occurrence with many people. 

I am obsessed with lists, my days consist of lists from start to finish from the moment I get to work until the moment I get to bed, everything has been planned and incorporated into some kind of list. Sometimes it's actually pretty exhausting when you think about it, because the list never ends, once you take something off another thing gets added to it!

1. Work 
2. Go to the gym 
3. Have a cup of tea
4. Relax
5. Talk to my boyfriend for a few minutes

If this sounds like you then do me a favour and STOP IT! Sit back and think about where you want to be in 5 years time and create a bigger picture other than the to do list on your iPhone Notes (yes this is me!) on what you need to do over the next few days. 

I think where this saying 'Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans' comes from is that we get so caught up in the little things every day such as making plans and lists that we actually forget our purpose and push our dreams to one side. Everything up until our early 20s is all planned for us - go to preschool, go to primary school, go to secondary school, go to university, get a job... we actually have a list created for us by our parents before we are even able to talk! 

Your twenties are a funny decade, you are still growing and finding out about yourself and I have definitely spent most of them still figuring out who or what I want to be! One thing I have realised in the last few months is that you should always follow your dreams. You don't want to look back in 20 years and feel like it's too late to succeed at what you really wanted when you were younger. Whether it was to write a book, travel the world, or jump from a plane. We all have different ideas of who we want to be or what we want from life and only we can measure our own idea of success. 

I follow a blog called Marc and Angel Hack Life, by two very wise men. They totally inspire me and I feel sometimes that everything they write is meant just for me. Now that is a talent in itself! Last week I received an email from them entitled: 7 Things You Really Need to Stop Putting Yourself Through,and the following point really jumped out at me:

Stop attaching yourself to what’s not meant to be. – We all have this idea in our heads of how things are supposed to be, but sadly this is why we end up disappointed.  Expect less.  Enjoy more.  Sometimes life doesn’t give you what you WANT because you NEED something else.  And what you need often comes when you’re not looking for it.  When it’s meant to be, it will be.

Top tips to boost your mood this January

It’s an annual cliché, you’re broke, your clothes are tighter and you want to crawl back under the duvet at any opportunity, yep it’s our old reliable friend January.

As we approach Blue Monday (18^th January) it is so important to not get sucked into the misery and depression that it can bring, especially when the weather is so bad and payday seems so far away. January is the Monday of months and if it had a face it would be downright ugly but we need to smack it in its horrible face and beat those start-of-year blues!

Here are some top things to do that I find helps to beat the January blues:

1.  Eat well and exercise:

All the over-indulgence during the festive period can leave us feeling bloated and lethargic. By making small changes to your diet and exercising more frequently, not only does your body look and feel better, but it also does wonders for your mind. 

           

      2. Go Dry for January:

It is a well-known fact that alcohol is a depressant, and it can sometimes be the main contributor to our mood in January. There is so much drink consumed throughout December that it can be no harm in giving your body a break in January and you might actually start to feel like a normal human being again!

3. Take advantage of the January Sales:

Buy yourself something nice, even if it’s only small, there is nothing like a good online bargain or a little trip to Penneys to lift the mood.

My €25 January Penneys Haul 

4.  Set realistic goals:

Be patient and know that you are moving towards where you want to be. Write down all your achievements from last year and make a plan of small goals you want to achieve this year. By setting small, realistic goals throughout the year, it keeps us more motivated as we have more chance of achieving them.

5. Always have something to look forward to:

Plan a sun holiday or weekend break with your partner or friends, as nothing quite lifts the mood more than having a trip away to look forward to.  Even if you can’t afford to pay for it all now, just by putting the plans together and setting aside money each month it will keep you positive on days when you’re feeling down.

6. Spend some quality time with friends:

Sometimes the greatest therapy any girl can have comes from spending time with her friends. There is nothing more uplifting when you are in a bad mood than a belly-aching giggle with the girls. Whether you go to the cinema, for a walk or just call over for a cuppa, make sure to spend quality time with your friends this month and it won’t seem quite so blue.

      7. De-clutter:

There is actually no better feeling than decluttering in January. Last year I completely emptied my wardrobes - washed everything I wanted to keep and bagged everything I was throwing out or giving to charity. This can take some time but the satisfaction you get from it is amazing! If you haven’t worn it in 12 months or if it no longer fits, get rid! I find that I forget half the things I own when my wardrobe is messy so by clearing out you might piece some fabulous new outfits together.

8. Create a positivity jar:

I read about doing something like this in December and I just love the idea. This January, buy an empty jar and fill it with notes about good things that happen, it can be once a week or once a day. Then on New Year’s Eve 2016 open the jar and read all the amazing things that happened during the year.

9. Take a break from Social Media:

I think that Social Media should come with an anxiety warning. If anything can get you down it’s seeing how amazing everyone else’s lives seem, I lost count the amount of people I saw on Snapchat and Facebook in Thailand this January. But just remember, Social Media has a rose tinted glass, nobody posts selfies on Instagram of them looking horrible. If this does make you feel bad about yourself, take a break for a few weeks, you can survive this long without seeing what your friend’s cousin ate for brunch.

                                                                          

10.   Pamper yourself:

Book a spa day for you and your friends for the end of the month and you can celebrate being finished with January for another year with a massage and end the dry spell with a glass of Prosecco!

January Beauty Review

It's January, we're all feeling a little tired and like we're carrying some extra holiday weight. So what better to cheer us up than some wonderful beauty products!

Below I have reviewed three of my January beauty must-haves...

1.       Blank Canvas Cosmetics Master Series Palette One

So it is safe to say that I am slightly obsessed with the Blank Canvas Master palette and like I am with my hair, I am also very fussy when it comes to eyeshadow. Having worked for MAC for a number of years I was totally loyal and never found a brand whose eyeshadow could quite meet the same standard in my (masterfully over-blended) eyes!

Then I became a massive fan of Inglot shadows (I skipped the Urban Decay trend, not convinced) as I found they blend in a similar way to MAC. That was until I got my hands on this clever little number.

With a total of 12 shadows (11 x matte and 1 x shimmer) a mirror and an amazing blending brush, this is literally the only item you need to create the perfect smoky eye. What I love about it is the colours bring you from day to night, and not only are they easy to blend but the colour payoff is amazing.

I like to use Brazen and Strut in the crease with Core on the lid for a natural daytime look. Then to smoke it up at night I bring in Downtown and Cocoa deeper into the crease and around the edge of the eyes. Goddess (the shimmer shadow) is perfect on the lid, inner corner of the eyes and under the brow bone.

I finished the below look off with some Double Trouble Lashes from Penneys!

For €35 on www.blankcosmetics.ie this palette is every girl’s makeup case must-have item.

Face: MAC Prolongwear Foundation NC37, Inglot HD Powder, MAC Harmony to contour and
MAC Blush
Eyes: Blank Canvas Master Palette, Inglot Gel Liner, Lancome Hypnose Drama Mascara
and Penneys Double Trouble lashes

2.        Viviscal Gorgeous Growth – Densifying Shampoo and Conditioner

I am quite fussy when it comes to my hair, which you have to be when you have a mop of curls like I do. I have tried and tested nearly every haircare brand on the market over the years and many shampoos and conditioners either leave my hair dry, frizzy or just limp.

Having curly hair is a full time job! But Viviscal 
leaves it feeling amazing. This was after 
my first time using it with a small amount of Bedhead styling 
creme

Because of this, I was very excited to try Viviscal’s new densifying range, not just because it has such a good reputation when it comes to haircare, but also because the packaging just looks so beautiful!

Blended with biotin, keratin and zinc to promote healthy looking hair growth (probably the reason I need to get my roots done again so soon!) this range promises to give you naturally thicker, fuller and gorgeous hair.

The shampoo lathers really well so you only need a tiny amount and the conditioner leaves your hair incredibly soft and shiny. Because it is ‘densifying’, it really thickens the hair after one use and as an added bonus the botanical infused fragrance makes it smell amazing.

At a €11.95 it is really affordable so this will most definitely be a repeat purchase from me, especially as you only need a small amount for it to work.

        3.         Oil of Olay Anti-Ageing Day Cream + Serum

This is definitely a firm favourite in my daily beauty regime and I usually apply it in the morning before my makeup. I find this 2 in 1 cream + serum not only instantly hydrates the skin, but leaves it looking and feeling smoother after one use.

The 2-in-1 formula combines an anti-wrinkle cream with a firming serum, meaning it plumps skin with intense moisture and targets the appearance of wrinkles.

It spreads so well that you only need a pea sized amount and it smells amazing! I am a big fan of Oil of Olay as not only is it affordable, but along with Ponds, it was probably the only cream that our mothers and grandmothers used for years and it seemed to work for them!

There also seems to be really good offers on this cream in most of the Supermarkets, Tesco are currently offering buy one get one free and Dunnes usually have them on a half price offer.